REALITY TV: An Idiot's Guide to Dating - Wisecrack Edition

3 juil. 2020
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Love is Blind and The Bachelor: Not just where love goes to die.
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Even if you're not a fan of reality tv, you probably know that their depictions of love are, at first glance, pretty bananas. But what if there's actually a lot to be learned from the way these shows construct stories about love? Let's find out in this Wisecrack Edition on Reality TV: An Idiot's Guide to Dating.

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  • Correction: At 12:10, we refer to a man from San Diego blowing his life savings to find love in the Philippines and show Big Ed. We meant Larry (also from Before the 90 Days) who is from Florida. We hope you will forgive us of such an embarrassing error.

    WisecrackWisecrackIl y a 3 mois
    • Obviously. Did people really make that a big deal? What the shit

      Nikko0o0o0o O0o0o0oNikko0o0o0o O0o0o0oIl y a 13 jours
    • Reality shows are so fake. Like, 90 Day Fiance, they act like certain things are a problem like money, when the show is clearly paying the person to do the show.

      bondservant4jesusbondservant4jesusIl y a 3 mois
    • The fact that people are mad about this says just as much as the video.

      Dustin O'DafferDustin O'DafferIl y a 3 mois
    • He looks like Barney Rubble.

      I'am a Redguard!I'am a Redguard!Il y a 3 mois
    • That is why you stay single forever...like me. I am sad about the fact I never dated, but also feeling relaxed because that will be another unrealistic pressure in my life I don't need.

      Kimi LoveKimi LoveIl y a 3 mois
  • "Your obsession love spell is on point! Ever since I met my boyfriend I knew he was the one. I could not stop thinking about him all of the time. My feelings became stronger the more I was around him at work. He was hesitant to date me because of the rules. I never cared about them but he took them seriously. After having this spell cast though, that changed. He started pursuing me and we spent almost everyday together and we have been inseparable ever since!" I would have no hesitation to recommend this powerful spell caster to anybody who is in need of help should contact via: homeofhealingandlove.webs.com or WhatsApp via: +15623801790

    Giovanni LorenzoGiovanni LorenzoIl y a 4 jours
  • ~11:16-11:22 Musicians might disagree and not just violists like the 'Twoset' duo

    Vintage TerminalVintage TerminalIl y a 10 jours
  • And 9O day fiancé is disgusting colonizers framing the global south as a stereotype that as a citizen of it, fuck you

    Catalina C.Catalina C.Il y a 13 jours
  • Please know NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO THROW ANYTHING AT YOU OR BECOME PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE! NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO VERBALLY ABUSE OTHERS AND PREY ON EMOTIONS! Abusive people can be DANGEROUS AND CAN KILL YOU IN EXTREME CASES! You are not overreacting and you have allies who want you to live in freedom and safety!

    Catalina C.Catalina C.Il y a 13 jours
  • This was beautifully said. I'm in the process of reshaping my own warped ideas of love in order to break a pattern of codependency that lead to a a few toxic and two abusive situations. That new definition of love is exactly what I've been practicing lately.

    WolfenOwlCelestialWolfenOwlCelestialIl y a mois
  • If love really was both blind and unconditional, we'd all be pansexual

    BakamalianBakamalianIl y a mois
  • lol

    SamSamIl y a mois
  • Love itself is pure cringe. Strength and Enlightenment come from within, noone else can give them to you. "B-but they complete me!" CRINGE.

    ClassixClassixIl y a mois
  • I mean, I think reality shows like this exist to allow us to question these ideas. I mean, even within 90 day fiance's own media, there is a whole programme where they get former contestants to laugh at how ludicrous it is that these people will do anything to find love. And that kind of conversation is why 90 day fiance is so popular in the first place, we're laughing at these people's misguided ideas about love. So I think they're working to deconstruct rather than uphold a lot of our ideas about love.

    Clau-chau NicolClau-chau NicolIl y a mois
  • Some of this can pertain to familial love too (referencing the "unconditional love" commentary).

    LissiLissiIl y a mois
  • Realty tv : your not complete till you have a loving relationship Asexual people : oof

    Sam FishSam FishIl y a mois
  • Tbf isnt the bachalorette the most realistic love reality show? I mean, its basically tinder in real life😅

    priscilla ann st preuxpriscilla ann st preuxIl y a mois
  • Ah, yes. The old "put-all-your-faith-and-love-into-a-flawed-and-broken-being-that-will-die-one-day" trick; gets em every time! Lol

    wesley32186wesley32186Il y a mois
  • In the end; I'm loving the right way. Feels so good now. Love u guys thx 💙

    Mr. ChüMr. ChüIl y a mois
  • I thought it was her areola at 4:01 lol

    Cammie xCammie xIl y a mois
  • Love is overrated, marriage is overhype, being single is underrated. I love being single, rather then having partner I had friends with benefits, many of them are males, couple females. As guy it is easier to know what other guy think, feel, want, womens are complicated. Myb Im wrong, my strange lifestyle is product of my strange intersex body.

    MikaelaMikaelaIl y a mois
  • Check out the podcast “Love Mainland” for a deeper analysis along these lines.

    Christof SlawomirskiChristof SlawomirskiIl y a mois
  • I hate the idea of unconditional love. Sure I love my husband but HONESTLY if he (although I doubt this would ever happen) becomes abusive or gets into serious substance abuse problems or drastically changes personality, I will only stick around until I find out if he's willing to change and get better. I owe it to myself not to stay in a situation that is bad for me with no hope of changing. The idea of unconditional love just shackles us to potential abusive situations.

    cactuslemcactuslemIl y a mois
    • At the same time though there will always be ups and downs which couples have to ride out. The good qualities outweigh the bad. You're not supposed to be head over heels all the time and sometimes you might feel like you dislike your partner but you still love them and ride it out. Just because it isn't going great doesn't mean you need to fight though, nasty fighting can lead to distrust which kills the relationship. Anyway know your deal breakers when it comes to relationships and stand up for yourself but remember not to threaten or actually break up over dumb shit.

      cactuslemcactuslemIl y a mois
  • Is it weird if I don't desire romantic relationships? I feel fulfilled just with my awesome friends.

    McGhee FoulmouthMcGhee FoulmouthIl y a mois
  • tbh it just feel disconnected to what real life love feel like ... it just feel like force married in the old Asia country for either fame or connection profit

    WhiteKWhiteKIl y a mois
  • A uniquely modern plague signaling the collapse of society 🤣forget Covid, definitely the bachelor!!

    Carl SpacklerCarl SpacklerIl y a mois
  • Reality TV, to me, is never & will never be a pure, effortless entertainment because it is nothing but a perversion of reality! How can one be entertained by it? Unless that person watching it has a perverted sense of reality! Remind me of that question from a movie, "Are you not entertained?" And I say (in context with reality TV shows), damn, I'm not!

    Yeng SabioYeng SabioIl y a 2 mois
  • There`s no love, just intention to rob each other. Love searches are humiliating, better not try preserve your dignity.

    личная правдаличная правдаIl y a 2 mois
  • Historians from the Year 2550: "Why did the pre-Empire Americans have so many mass murders after the year 2000?" >Discovers reality TV >Discovers mumble rap >Discovers Pop >Discovers FB >Discovers IG >Discovers Tik Tok >Discovers Woke Culture >Discovers Cancel Culture Historians from the year 2550: "Oh, I see..."

    SubudeiSubudeiIl y a 2 mois
    • You sound very woke

      McGhee FoulmouthMcGhee FoulmouthIl y a mois
  • What’s up with the techno music thought?

    blahoblahoIl y a 2 mois
  • If you're single it's probably for a good reason. Most people now are so neurotic and delusional from reality TV, social media, and identity politics that they are undateable, intolerable people.

    Andrew HerlihyAndrew HerlihyIl y a 2 mois
  • I only came here to see if yall where gonna dog my girl Tiffany Pollard

    Owami JacksonOwami JacksonIl y a 2 mois
  • ublock origin can zap that fuckin' bachelor season whatever advertisement at the top right corner of the page. *wink wink*

    jjjjIl y a 2 mois
  • Look I like this channel and I love how they normally have a work cited page and stuff like that. But I really don't like when the entire video is just quoting the same source over and over again. Like there's plenty of room for other opinions on some of these massive topics and I really feel like the best videos are the ones that embrace that.

    Chris SantChris SantIl y a 2 mois
  • Why’d they do Big Ed like that 😂

    follow petitelordexxfollow petitelordexxIl y a 2 mois
  • goddamn I can't even watch the 5 second excerpts of that abc show. JimmyKimmel's look of disgust flashes in front of my eyes.

    Hyung Kyu LeeHyung Kyu LeeIl y a 2 mois
  • I feel like self love is the next stage and has started to develop within the collective mind.

    hayeslundryhayeslundryIl y a 2 mois
  • No wonder we ended up with the sad excuse for a human being in the White House today. We’re stupid.

    map 529map 529Il y a 2 mois
  • I feel like most peoples desire for love is just a desperate urge for sex. Without sex most people cant even feel love.

    FatigueFatigueIl y a 2 mois
  • Omg I'm freaking out because it's Michael!

    Chris MalitChris MalitIl y a 2 mois
  • In summary, find someone you want to spend time with and make you feel like at home. nothing more-nothing less

    Nieznajomy43Nieznajomy43Il y a 2 mois
  • Wow so many ads

    OliveiraOliveiraIl y a 2 mois
  • Great trash add for a garbage needless service

    Will YoungWill YoungIl y a 2 mois
  • there are two books called don't read poetry and why poetry in the background

    Angela ChiAngela ChiIl y a 2 mois
  • I come back to this video every time I get caught up in mixed feelings about my former toxic relationship. It always helps.

    Waldyr Matheus Jorge LiberatoWaldyr Matheus Jorge LiberatoIl y a 2 mois
  • This means nothing if you don't address physical appearance. Check out videos by FRworldr FACEandLMS if you want to learn the truth and be red pilled.

    vidformvidformIl y a 2 mois
  • 8:00

    Tristan McCannTristan McCannIl y a 2 mois
  • @Wisecrack why did you bleep “cr*p”? 😂

    tone1245tone1245Il y a 3 mois
  • Love is not a perfect fantasy, i think like all emotions there are ups and downs and I think its up to you if you choose to continue that relationship depending on the context. I've known many people with happy marriages and truly represent this idea of love, but that doesn't mean they don't have flaws and they work them out. Also consider non traditional partners like polyamory where you have the ability to love more then one person. I think its important you love in my eyes is trust, and wanting to grow with someone, and that love might end up being platonic. At the end of the day we all feel lonely and are looking to share our life with someone who will cherish our memories together. This is just my opinion at the moment and it may change over time.

    Alex YarallyAlex YarallyIl y a 3 mois
  • Me, an asexual: we'll see. We'll see.

    Tade PinesTade PinesIl y a 3 mois
  • A lot of these shows are completely heteronormative- I’d love to see a video on that

    Ellie SimoneEllie SimoneIl y a 3 mois
  • TLDW: Bad TV can rot your brain for real

    abduktedtemplarabduktedtemplarIl y a 3 mois
  • uhffect

    dragoonfunykiddragoonfunykidIl y a 3 mois
  • Amazing job wisecrack!

    Deon DDeon DIl y a 3 mois
  • uff, how sad, people not realizing that they need to be at their best to get someone at their best. And when they are at the best, they won't even need that special someone, it will just be an addition.

    DeadEndFrogDeadEndFrogIl y a 3 mois
  • Don't be an asshole that looks like a thumb

    Subliminal StormSubliminal StormIl y a 3 mois
  • Daniel and Mohammed are the GOAT.

    Paola OPaola OIl y a 3 mois
  • IME, the key is just be yourself... never deviate from your true self and don't try too hard. Don't lie, don't pretend. Love yourself first, be a WHOLE individual that doesn't really "need" anybody instead of half-of-a-couple NEEDING someone to complete you (Yuck, right?)... you have to bring something to the table. Give that person a reason to want to spend their time with you. If you find somebody who falls in love with you while you're being your true self you are golden. You can just be you and they are happy with it. If you pretend at first(rookie mistake) they will always be looking for you to improve your true self..which will suck. Confidence....love yourself. Be a person that someone WANTS to be next to. Love life!!!....I know that sounds cliche but it's what will attract the person you're looking for. Good luck, but don't care too much about it.

    Snaus PocketsSnaus PocketsIl y a 3 mois
  • Me seeing Ed: "Go buy yourself a neck!"

    gridokungridokunIl y a 3 mois
  • I am being reminded of an ex-girlfriend. One of the reasons our relationship failed was because she was expecting our love to fix everything. Like somehow she would not feel bad about not having a job or college, she would feel blissfully happy about having found true love. The downside is she was in love with little old me, who is just your average joe. And when I couldn't bring her happiness, well then it simply MUST be me who is the problem. Oh, and she was obsessed with reality tv shows.

    Xarfax321Xarfax321Il y a 3 mois
  • Big Ed will probably be our next president. Why not?

    acmelkaacmelkaIl y a 3 mois
  • In short: 1) Be aware of red flags and/or flaws in your relationship 2) Love doesn’t take you away from reality 3) Many sacrifices aren’t worth it 4) Stop treating love like a race 5) Support the reality of love, not the fantasy

    Emanuel RojasEmanuel RojasIl y a 3 mois
  • Amphetamines are cheaper than relationships though

    Violence Is FunViolence Is FunIl y a 3 mois
  • ugh, dont give away the secret so easily, bruh. These people wont learn their lesson if they didn't figure it out on their own. lol

    Infinite8Infinite8Il y a 3 mois
  • Pretty sure a lot of things in that VPN ad were false

    Channel7331Channel7331Il y a 3 mois
  • Oof. Four and a half minutes before the video starts.

    zoochazoochaIl y a 3 mois
  • we need a chad vs simp wisecrack edition episode

    E-man SmithE-man SmithIl y a 3 mois
  • Jesus christ the acting in these shows is so bad,their eyes are just dead lol

    Hugo AuditoreHugo AuditoreIl y a 3 mois
  • I really like the narration. Has the right amount of energy and emotion.

    TheAnonymousMattTheAnonymousMattIl y a 3 mois
  • It would be healthier (but less profitable for TV shows and marketing companies, I'm sure) if people were commonly taught the 'Eight Ancient Greek Words for Love'. greekcitytimes.com/2020/02/14/the-8-ancient-greek-words-for-love/ Eros = romantic, passionate love Philia = affectionate love Agape = selfless, universal love Storge = familiar love Mania = obsessive love Ludus = playful love Pragma = enduring love Philautia = self love If you break down 'Love' and all it can really mean, 'Love' can be healthier and more beneficial to everyone involved. Philautia or 'Self Love' isn't as marketable for dating shows, like the ones that were mentioned. 'You don't deserve toxic love' is a better message to send then anything else.

    ImaniImaniIl y a 3 mois
  • So you want to find someone it's easy to be with? Someone that makes you feel apart of the world?

    Geoff F.Geoff F.Il y a 3 mois
  • What is love....

    Jun MorenoJun MorenoIl y a 3 mois
  • all those in the reality shows are struggling wanna be actors that are doing it to get exposure and to get their career going.

    laserleftfoot tttlaserleftfoot tttIl y a 3 mois
  • Not to mention the false notion that the breakup-er must be inherently selfish if they aren’t devastated by the breakup.

    Carl HeinCarl HeinIl y a 3 mois
  • 18:07 - 👏👏👏👏

    Roman Adrian MorganRoman Adrian MorganIl y a 3 mois
  • I'm sorry, I TRIED to watch to watch some of these but I just couldn't without getting disgusted. Seeing people getting emotionally invested while being rushed and knowing little about the people they meet seems scary. I'm sure there are billions of these shows but by watching the review videos, it looks like a lot of young and naive people being pushed by producers with flashy clothes/items and tons of cash/sex. Then having words put in their mouths in a visually romantic setting or they get kicked. I just don't see what's so romantic about people breaking down over that kind of pressure.

    Roman Adrian MorganRoman Adrian MorganIl y a 3 mois
  • Big Ed was essentially a paid actor. Not an actor per-say but, he was PAID TO ACT. The whole show is a farce - it's a fantasy of a parody that has nothing to do with reality. I thought this was common sense?? Big Ed is a character that doesn't even exist..

    Jericko DoggoJericko DoggoIl y a 3 mois
  • Onlogical rootedness sounds like embracing familiar love, or what most people do when searching for someone, which can be both good and bad. If your familiar love of your parents was abusive, you would end up with someone just like your abusive mother/father. It's the reason why so many people keep finding assholes. Not all men/women are terrible, you are just going back to what you are comfortable and familiar with.

    DaetraDaetraIl y a 3 mois
  • Great episode!

    Rex WilliamsRex WilliamsIl y a 3 mois
  • My father got back handed on his ass. Ass slammed 🖐

    BBIl y a 3 mois
  • I have to watch The bachelor with my girlfriend, which is awesome, because it's a ton of super hot women being as sexual as they can. The bachelorette, not so much.

    CitizenZero1CitizenZero1Il y a 3 mois
  • This is actually useful...and helped somehow..

    ShutupbradleyShutupbradleyIl y a 3 mois
  • 16:47 Neon genesis evangelion?

    Ice ManIce ManIl y a 3 mois
    • i just keep LETTING ME DOWN LETTING ME DOWN LETTING ME DOWN

      zoloft dependantzoloft dependantIl y a 3 mois
  • YOU DIDN'T SAY FLAVOR OF LOVE

    V4VonnieV4VonnieIl y a 3 mois
  • How to find a lasting relationship in this time: Dick around on tinder for a while and stay with the one that pisses you off the least.

    Alexander KratzschAlexander KratzschIl y a 3 mois
  • This was so interesting! I never considered other people could have a different concept of love than I did. I used to feel "incomplete" without a partner as a teenager, but as I got older I was fine being in a relationship or not because I always felt like me. When my husband and I started dating we read a book together called Real Love in Dating by Dr. Greg Baer. His view is that expecting things from people leads to disappointment so to unconditionally love them you show them love and not expect anything in return. In order to do this though, I think you have to put yourself first and watch out for abuse. You can still love someone and leave to protect yourself. My husband and I have also come to realize that unconditional love is an ideal that is almost impossible for humans to practice 100% of the time because of course we're going to be angry when the other does something we don't like or annoyed or hurt or any negative emotion that takes over and replaces the feeling of love. But we've promised to do our best and keep trying to unconditionally love each other. For me that means that once I've calmed down and can think clearly again, I try to see him as a whole person instead of the one thing he did and often realize that it doesn't matter as much as I thought it did in the grand scheme of things. Honestly, we've only been married for 2 years but it's been the best feeling I've ever experienced to have an emotional breakdown or mess up and know that there's a human being who still cares about me deeply despite my weaknesses. I can be my authentic self around him and don't have to always be putting on a show to impress. I get to be that person for him too! I feel like a whole person+++. It's not a fairy tale, but to me it's better because it's real and obtainable. It's even helping us move toward ontological rootedness.

    ImagitextImagitextIl y a 3 mois
  • only boomers date bruh

    DunstonDunstonIl y a 3 mois
  • "Spolier for your love life!" Laughs in aromantic

    erin burwellerin burwellIl y a 3 mois
  • Why not use a better camera? For a youtube channel analyzing the small details of life why not analyze the quality and composition of their own work?

    Papel OrdinaryPapel OrdinaryIl y a 3 mois
  • "primordial soup of feelings" Enter Flood of Neon Genesis

    Dr. DuckDr. DuckIl y a 3 mois
  • Wait, you would stop loving your wife just because she decided to start playing the trumpet every day at sunrise...? I REALLY hope you're not married because that is NOT that big a deal. 🤨

    LoganBluthLoganBluthIl y a 3 mois
  • You plotted some heavily excellent spots here Sir. I like you. Much more than shaky whacky hair guy.

    Soul MechanicsSoul MechanicsIl y a 3 mois
  • Well Aristotle stated that character was a variety of actions that we do. In romantic relationships I feel that our “true” selves come out with we do things for others. If we take a evolutionary perspective on this matter, the courtship revolves who can provide the most. I believe that in a sense we need to live in the moment and take things one step at a time on the other hand, we should balance ideal romantic love with scrutiny. No one is happy all the time, being in that state is unrealistic and toxic.

    longsheltonlongsheltonIl y a 3 mois
  • "Better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all." ..... Are you sure about that???

    Will MeyersWill MeyersIl y a 3 mois
  • Dating Is Dead (thanks to feminists)

    Ryan PalermoRyan PalermoIl y a 3 mois
  • There are loads of men like Ed who are from a rich western country. They go to east Asia to predator on young women, these women want money and believe in white male superiority.

    Zoon GeraltZoon GeraltIl y a 3 mois
  • all this video has done is reinforced the relief I feel that as an aromatic person, i don't have to deal with any of this.

    afroblademasterafroblademasterIl y a 3 mois
  • “Ontological rootedness?” For some reason, I find this dead sexy!

    ZeBloZeBloIl y a 3 mois
  • As, a Christian......

    SMOSHOOSMOSHOOIl y a 3 mois
  • This reality show love is fucking and real one fucked up.

    The Wandering AristotleThe Wandering AristotleIl y a 3 mois
  • Thank you for the thing about 90 day that’s needed to be said

    mark pmark pIl y a 3 mois
  • So many pills, so many biases, such dignified people wasted.

    Lars ChueLars ChueIl y a 3 mois
  • how did "Nathan For You"'s parody bachelor show not make it onto this XD

    Sam GleasonSam GleasonIl y a 3 mois
  • Hypothetically, if my girlfriend murder my cat, it will only make me more determined to sweep her off her leg and take her heart away . Literally

    Dimas AkbarDimas AkbarIl y a 3 mois
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